Sex Tips for Valentine’s Day
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Valentine’s Day is here, and for many couples the lovers’ holiday might come with pressure to have great sex.
But great sex doesn’t just happen. It takes effort. It takes intimacy, and that means taking the time to really know each other. It means being honest and open about your desires.
This Valentine’s Day, use the holiday as a conversation starter to get your partner talking about what you like, what you want and what you need in the bedroom. Sex lives are a journey, not a destination, and over the course of your life and your relationship, it’s natural for desires and needs to change. (It’s amazing what a little lubricant can do too!)
Make the holiday a time to check in with each other and share how you’re feeling physically and emotionally. Tell your partner why you think he’s sexy, or ask what she loves about your body. Try something new or consider why something is a favorite. If you need a little help getting the conversation going, pick up a pack of the Pure Romance Date Night Cards.
It’s funny, even with our partners, the people who know us most intimately, talking about sex can be difficult. But when we are strong enough to be vulnerable and generous enough to allow our partners to be vulnerable too, we’re rewarded.
Also, it’s Valentine’s Day 365 days a year at Pure Romance. We are in the business of keeping the spark alive with couples all year long. Please remember this is not a one time a year gig—this is an all-time a year gig. You need to be working on your relationship with your significant other and your relationship with yourself all year long. Valentine’s Day is not just about couples, and I’ve always said this…it is a time to celebrate everyone that is important in your life!