Three Things About Sex that Shouldn’t Embarrass You
Who among us doesn’t have an embarrassing sex story? Maybe it’s that first time when you were a little clueless, or a daring new position that didn’t quite work out as pictured. We all have them and the luckiest of us also have partners who can laugh over them with us. Sex is, just like us, perfect in its imperfection.
Here are three things you never need to be embarrassed about when it comes to sex.
Your partner thinks you’re gorgeous. Promise. Your shape, your scent, your sounds — your partner wants you, regardless of whether you remembered to shave your legs. Be comfortable in your own skin. Nothing is sexier than confidence.
Every body is different, and honestly, every time you have sex might be a little different. Don’t worry about how long it’s taking you to reach orgasm. Women take longer than men, period. In fact, don’t worry if an orgasm just isn’t happening this time. Focus on touches and feelings. Let yourself get lost in the intimacy of the moment.
Asking or refusing.
Don’t be afraid to ask your partner for what you want or tell him what you like. And if you don’t like something or don’t want to do something, don’t be afraid to tell him that, too. Your partner can’t read your mind, so you have to let him in on what turns you on and off.
Be open and honest with your partner. Tell your significant other what you like about them; ask them what they like about you — and believe what they tell you! You’ll find that embarrassment is impossible, because you’re too busy enjoying each other and laughing together.